HE SAID WHAT? Woman receives shocking message from a man she had sex with… and fellow Mumsnet users are furious (3 Pics)

A SHOCKED Mumsnet user has taken to the popular parenting site to share an "unspeakably rude" text message she received from a man she'd had sex with.

The user copied the message onto the forum, asking fellow users for suggestions on an "appropriate response".

"Urgh, this is horrible for me, and for you, and it could well sour things and I would hate myself if it did," the message read.

"But, I have to be honest. I said you were not my normal type, physically, and that is very true.

"I am really attracted to slim women, I can't help it and have tried before, with it not getting very far. I completely accept that circumstances and free time dictate how we are able to shape ourselves.

"I understand if you are hurt by this, and trust me I hate it having to be a thing. I hate the idea of men dictating to a woman what they should look like, and I am not telling you to do anything. I am just saying, in the past at least, this issue has got in the way."

"If you did feel like meeting me in the middle on this then I am realistic and not as demanding as you might initially think," the text continued.

"As I say I totally understand that your circumstances and how they are not exactly kind in this respect.

"There are literally zero other red flags, especially none outside of your control, maybe.

"Urgh, I am so sorry, I know how this issue can really f*** women up but as I say I can't help what I like, but I am super realistic about what is possible and what is not. Urgh urgh."

The shocking post has since had over 600 replies - and Mumsnet users are utterly furious.

One wrote: "What a creep, and what a cringy message. I wouldn’t even text back, just block him."

While another said: "Is he actually asking you to lose weight?
"If that’s what he is asking I wouldn’t even reply, what a total douchebag. You are worth so much more."

One horrified user called him "unspeakably rude" while another suggested replying using the same message, "but edited so that it refers to the size of his penis".

Others agreed this was a good idea, with one writing: "You could either ignore and block or reply thanking him for making this easy as you were going to dump him because he has a tiny penis and while there are no other red flags, this is a big deal for you."

One concerned user explained the "controlling" behaviour was "a red flag".

"I would point out that controlling behaviour is a red flag for you and that he is displaying it in spades," they wrote.

"Suggest he gets some counselling before entering into another relationship."

Another woman wrote: "You are a size 12? Oh my days what an absolute pig of a pig! How inflated are these blokes egos and how rude?! Yuk...just revolting. Maybe screenshot all these fabulous responses from all these fabulous women and send them all as your reply."

The woman - who revealed "'Liaison' = shag' and just for the record, I'm 5'9 and a size 12!" thanked fellow users for their advice and said: "I ignored and blocked while eating cake and felt huge gratitude for the wisedom/comedy/love/genius of MNers."